Start Dealing with your ex dating again

Dealing with your ex dating again

Go on with your process of healing since unless you are calmer in mind and more objective in your thoughts, it will be impossible to understand what really happened.

You will have to start from scratch in order to create conditions for mutual trust and respect and at the same time be patient enough to watch another person paying attention to the one you secretly love.

Getting back together with your ex is possible but that will include its own challenges and specific ways of going about it.

Such expectations are hardly unusual and quite often estranged couples have been known to get back together after a brief period of separation during which they probably had the time and space to analyze their individual priorities.

If you have been doing the same, perhaps you should be aware that winning back your ex from the arms of a new partner will be a long and often uneven process.

No matter which partner was at fault and who initiated the breakup, when a relationship ends it is bound to bring pain and regret.

But the process of coping becomes that much more difficult when you watch your ex start dating again even before your tears have dried up.

You might feel as though the relationship meant nothing for your ex and that they never even really loved you. What for your ex may be an adequate period of mourning the end of a relationship, might seem too short for you and the return to dating on part of your ex too soon.

Accept that it is natural for you to feel so sad and even cheated at watching your ex move on to another partner.

So whether you wish to get back with your ex or are looking forward to living among new people, knowing that your ex is dating others is not the end of the world.

If indeed you want to give your relationship a second chance, giving your ex enough space to date others could be the easiest way to having him/her back with you.

Take another route to work if you had been bumping into each other while commuting or stop all contact with them by phone/emails if the two of you had remained in touch.